How to say “to Pretend”: Italian Grammar Lesson

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Lei finge di lavorare.
Lei finge di lavorare.
Lei finge di lavorare.
Published Jul 23, 2021
Updated Aug 23, 2025
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Key Takeaways

  • The verb fingere means "to pretend" and is used to express faking or acting as if something is true.
  • Conjugation for fingere includes fingo (I pretend) and fingono (they pretend).
  • Use fare finta for a more colloquial expression of pretending, meaning "to make pretend."
  • Be cautious of the false friend pretendere, which means "to demand" or "to expect."
  • Both fingere and pretendere can be followed by a noun or di + infinitive.

Stefano's Insights

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Ah, il verbo "pretendere"! Non lasciatevi ingannare dal suo suono simile all'inglese "pretend". In realtà, significa chiedere con insistenza o aspettarsi qualcosa. Ricordo quando un amico americano, appena arrivato in Italia, disse "pretendo di essere un dottore" pensando di dire "fingo di essere un dottore". Immaginate le risate! Per "pretendere" nel senso inglese, invece, usiamo "fingere" o l'espressione più colloquiale "fare finta di". E chi non ha mai fatto finta di niente, magari quando il capo ci chiama per un lavoro extra? Ah, le sottigliezze della lingua italiana!
Ah, the verb "pretendere"! Don't be fooled by its similarity to the English "pretend." It actually means to demand or expect something. I remember when an American friend, new to Italy, said "pretendo di essere un dottore" thinking he was saying "I pretend to be a doctor." Imagine the laughs! For "pretend" in English, we use "fingere" or the more colloquial "fare finta di." And who hasn't pretended nothing happened, maybe when the boss calls us for extra work? Ah, the subtleties of the Italian language!

Quick facts

What does "pretendere" mean in Italian?

"Pretendere" means to demand, presume, or expect, not to pretend.

How can "pretendere" be misleading for English speakers?

It's a false friend; it looks like "pretend" but differs in meaning.

Can you give an example using "pretendere"?

"Pretendere 300 euro per una giornata di lavoro è esagerato" means demanding 300 euros for a day's work is too much.

How do you express "to pretend" in Italian?

The verb "fingere" is used to express "to pretend" in Italian.

How do you form compound tenses with "fingere"?

Use the past participle "finto" to form compound tenses with "fingere."

What's a common construction to describe pretending in Italian?

Use "fingere di" followed by an infinitive verb to describe pretending.

How can you say "They pretend to be foreigners" in Italian?

"Loro fingono di essere stranieri."

What's an informal way to say "to pretend" in Italian?

Use "fare finta di" plus an infinitive, which is more colloquial.

How do children often pretend in Italian?

"I bambini fanno spesso finta di non capire," meaning children often pretend they don't understand.

What's a unique expression involving pretending in Italian?

"Fare finta di niente," meaning to pretend nothing happened, is a fixed expression not interchangeable with "fingere."

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How to Say “To Pretend” in Italian

Fingere

The most accurate translation verb for “to pretend” in Italian is fingere. This verb is used when you want to express the idea of faking or acting as if something were true, for example:

Fingo di essere malato.

I pretend to be sick.

The Italian verb fingere is a regular second conjugation verb. Here I will show you its conjugation in the main tenses of the indicative mood:

Subject Conjugation Translation
Io fingo I pretend
Tu fingi You pretend
Lui/Lei finge He/She pretends
Noi fingiamo We pretend
Voi fingete You pretend
Loro fingono They pretend

Loro fingono di sapere la risposta.

They pretend to know the answer.

Fingere is a transitive verb, therefore the passato prossimo is formed with the auxiliary verb avere followed by the past participle finto.

Subject Conjugation Translation
Io ho finto I pretended
Tu hai finto You pretended
Lui/Lei ha finto He/She pretended
Noi abbiamo finto We pretended
Voi avete finto You pretended
Loro hanno finto They pretended

Ho finto di non vedere l’errore.

I pretended not to see the mistake.

Subject Conjugation Translation
Io fingevo I was pretending
Tu fingevi You were pretending
Lui/Lei fingeva He/She was pretending
Noi fingevamo We were pretending
Voi fingevate You were pretending
Loro fingevano They were pretending

Fingevo di essere interessato, ma in realtà non lo ero.

I was pretending to be interested, but I really wasn’t.

Subject Conjugation Translation
Io fingerò I will pretend
Tu fingerai You will pretend
Lui/Lei fingerà He/She will pretend
Noi fingeremo We will pretend
Voi fingerete You will pretend
Loro fingeranno They will pretend

Fingerò di non essere sorpreso.

I will pretend not to be surprised.

As you can see, the verb fingere is commonly followed by the preposition di and a verb in the present infinitive. This is the most common structure, as it allows to introduce an action that the subject is pretending to do.

Ha finto di dormire.

S/he pretended to sleep.

However, fingere can also be used without di, directly followed by a noun or pronoun to express pretending to be something.

Lui finge indifferenza.

He pretends indifference.

Fingo interesse.

I pretend interest.

“Fare Finta”

Another phrase Italians use to express pretending is fare finta. It is very similar to fingere, as the noun finta comes from the verb fingere itself.

This phrase is a bit more colloquial and often used in everyday conversation. It makes use of the verb fare and literally means “to make pretend”, for example:

Fa finta di dormire.

He pretends to sleep.

Unlike fingere, fare finta is always followed by the preposition di and a verb in the present infinitive.

The Italian “Pretendere”

A common mistake for English speakers is assuming that pretendere translates to “to pretend”. It would have been way easier, I know, but pretendere is a false friend.

In Italian, the verb pretendere means “to demand” or “to expect” something. Think of it as making a claim or insisting on something being done, as in these examples:

Pretendo rispetto.

I demand respect.

Pretendiamo di essere ascoltati quando parliamo.

We expect to be heard when we speak.

Notice how the meaning is completely different from pretending or faking. Also notice that, just like fingere, the verb pretendere can be followed both by a noun, as in the first sentence, and di + infinitive, as in the second one.

Key Terms and Concepts

Fingere

The verb used in Italian to express pretending or faking something. It is a regular second conjugation verb.

Fare finta

A colloquial phrase meaning "to make pretend," often used in everyday conversation. It uses fare and is always followed by di.

Pretendere

A false friend in Italian, meaning "to demand" or "to expect," unlike the English 'pretend.' It can be followed by a noun or di + infinitive.

Passato Prossimo

A past tense formed with the auxiliary verb avere or essere and the past participle of the main verb. Used for completed actions.

Di + Infinitive

A common structure in Italian where di precedes an infinitive verb, often used with verbs like fingere to introduce faked actions.

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Words

fingereto pretend
fintofake
immaginareto imagine
illusioneillusion
mascherareto disguise
simulareto simulate
recitareto act
esagerareto exaggerate
ingannodeception
camuffareto camouflage

Phrases

fingereto pretend
fare finta dito pretend
fare finta di nienteto pretend nothing happened
fintofake
illusioneillusion
simulareto simulate
immaginareto imagine
fingere di esserepretend to be
pretendereto demand
recitareto act

Sentences

Lui finge di essere malato per evitare la scuola.

He pretends to be sick to avoid school.

Lei ha fatto finta di non vedere il messaggio.

She pretended not to see the message.

Fingiamo di non sapere nulla della sorpresa.

We pretend not to know anything about the surprise.

I bambini fanno finta di essere supereroi quando giocano.

The children pretend to be superheroes when they play.

Non fare finta di niente, so che hai sentito tutto.

Don't pretend nothing happened, I know you heard everything.

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FAQs

How to say to pretend in Italian?

By using the verb "fingere".

How to use "fingere"?

There are two options: using "fingere" + di + infinitive or a more colloquial structure with "fare finta di" +infinitive.

What does the expressions "fare finta di niente" or "fare finta di nulla" mean?

To pretend nothing happened or nothing is happening.

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