How to say “how”: Italian Grammar Lesson

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Key Takeaways

  • The word come translates to "how" in Italian, pronounced distinctly from the English verb "to come".
  • Come can function as both a conjunction and an adverb, depending on its usage in a sentence.
  • When asking about the method or manner of an action, use come to mean "how".
  • In comparisons, come means "like" or "as", linking two similar qualities or actions.
  • In exclamatory sentences, come emphasizes admiration or surprise, still translating to "how".
  • When forming conditional comparisons, come se translates to "as if", indicating hypothetical situations.

Stefano's Insights

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Ah, il meraviglioso mondo della parola 'come' in italiano! È una di quelle parole versatili che può significare 'how' o 'like', a seconda del contesto. È un po' come quel cugino che cambia lavoro ogni sei mesi: bisogna prestare attenzione per capire cosa sta facendo ora. Ricordo quando, durante una lezione, uno studente mi chiese: 'Come si dice come in inglese?' E io, con un sorriso, risposi: 'Come vuoi, come sempre!' La chiave è nel contesto: se chiedi 'Come va?' stai chiedendo 'How's it going?', ma se dici 'Parli come un poeta', stai confrontando qualcuno a un poeta. Non è fantastico come una sola parola possa avere così tanto carattere? Continua a esplorare queste sfumature e vedrai che l'italiano diventerà sempre più affascinante!
Ah, the wonderful world of the word 'come' in Italian! It's one of those versatile words that can mean 'how' or 'like', depending on the context. It's like that cousin who changes jobs every six months: you have to pay attention to understand what they're doing now. I remember during a lesson, a student asked me: 'How do you say come in English?' And I, with a smile, replied: 'As you wish, as always!' The key is in the context: if you ask 'Come va?' you're asking 'How's it going?', but if you say 'Parli come un poeta', you're comparing someone to a poet. Isn't it amazing how one word can have so much character? Keep exploring these nuances, and you'll find Italian becoming more and more fascinating!

Quick facts

What does "come" mean in Italian?

In Italian, "come" primarily translates to "how," often used in direct questions.

How can "come" be used in common phrases?

Phrases like "Come ti chiami?" (What's your name?) and "Come va?" (How's it going?) frequently use "come."

Can "come" be used within sentences?

Yes, "come" can be used in sentences, e.g., "Mi ha spiegato come funziona" (She explained how it works).

What is an example of "come" in a question about feelings?

"Come vi sentite?" translates to "How are you feeling?"

Can "come" mean something other than "how"?

Yes, "come" can also mean "like," depending on the context.

How can context determine the meaning of "come"?

Context reveals its meaning, e.g., "Vorrei sapere ballare come te" means "I’d like to be able to dance like you."

What's a non-question use of "come" meaning "how"?

"Non mi hai detto come sono i tuoi nuovi colleghi" means "You didn't tell me how your new colleagues are."

How can "come" be used to describe similarity?

"Parli proprio come la mia migliore amica" means "You speak exactly like my best friend," showing similarity.

What's a common Italian phrase to ask for someone's name?

"Come ti chiami?" is the phrase used to ask "What's your name?"

How do you ask about someone's coffee preference in Italian?

The question "Come vuoi il caffè?" translates to "How do you want your coffee?"

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“How” in Italian

As simple as it is, the word “how” in Italian is come. Be careful though! It is pronounced the way you read it, so it is very far from the English pronunciation of the verb “to come”.

The Italian come can be both a conjunction and an adverb depending on the way it is used. Have a look at the two sentences below to spot the difference:

Mi piace come hai arredato casa.

I like how you decorated your house

Queste scarpe sono come le mie.

These shoes are like mine.

Come stai oggi?

How are you today?

As you can see, in the first sentence come is linking two phrases, therefore functioning as a conjunction. In the second one, it is introducing a comparison, still as a conjunction.

In the last one, instead, it works as an interrogative adverb, because it used to ask questions in Italian, just like the wh-pronouns in English.

The versatility of the word come in Italian is something that is worth investigating, therefore let me now show you how to use it in context.

“Come” in Italian

“Come”: Meaning

As I showed in the previous examples, come can be translated to “how” when you’re inquiring about the way something is done.

Non so come fare questo esercizio.

I don’t know how to do this exercise.

Come si fa la carbonara?

How do you make carbonara?

Despite its grammatical function is different in these two sentences – it is a conjunction in the first one and an adverb in the second one – its translation is the same: “how”.

However, come can also mean “like” or “as” when you are comparing things or expressing similarity, as you can see in the sentence below:

Lei canta come una professionista.

She sings as a professional.

Dovresti andare in palestra, come Giorgio.

You should go to the gym, like Giorgio.

“Come”: Use

The primary use of come is to ask questions about the manner or method in which something occurs. When used this way, it corresponds to the English “how”:

Come stai?

How are you?

Come funziona?

How does it work?

Come si dice quello in italiano?

How do you say that in Italian?

Come as adverb can also be used in exclamatory sentences, to express surprise, admiration, or astonishment. In this context, it still retains the meaning of “how” but is used for emphasis in statements rather than questions:

Come sei bella oggi!

How beautiful you are today!

Come corre veloce quella macchina!

How fast that car runs!

In its role as a comparative conjunction, come is used to compare two actions, qualities, or states, and is equivalent to “like” or “as” in English. Here are some examples:

Parla come un madrelingua.

He speaks like a native speaker.

Il mio cane è forte come un leone.

My dog is as strong as a lion.

Sto lavorando come un matto per finire questo progetto.

I’m working like crazy to finish this project.

Notice that come is commonly used in if-clauses in Italian, called periodo ipoteticoHere, it is used to form conditional or hypothetical comparisons, where it takes on the meaning of “as if”.

Parli come se fossi un esperto.

You speak as if I were an expert.

Mi guarda come se non mi avesse riconosciuto.

He looks at me as if he didn’t recognize me.

In these sentences, come se is used to create a comparison between the actual situation and a hypothetical or imagined one, and, as you can see, it is translated into “as if” in Italian.

Make sure you know how to conjugate congiuntivo imperfetto and congiuntivo trapassato to use this type of structure!

Come ti Sembra?

How does it seem?

Learning the use of come in Italian is not hard, just make sure you know the right contexts! It is a flexible word that can mean “how” or “like”, depending on the way it is used.

Whether you’re asking about the manner in which something happens or comparing two things, come will likely be the word you need. Get ready to ask questions in Italian, then!

Key Terms and Concepts

Come as Conjunction

Come links two clauses, revealing the manner or way something is done. It can also introduce comparisons, equivalent to 'as' or 'like' in English.

Come as Adverb

Used to ask questions about the manner in which something occurs, much like the English 'how.' It's also used in exclamatory sentences for emphasis.

Comparative Come

In comparisons, come means 'like' or 'as,' drawing parallels between two actions or qualities, such as speaking 'like a native speaker.'

Periodo Ipotetico

A conditional structure using come se to compare real and hypothetical situations. Requires subjunctive mood, conveying ideas akin to 'as if.'

Congiuntivo Imperfetto / Trapassato

Subjunctive tenses used in conditional clauses to express uncertainty or hypothetical scenarios, important for forming sentences with come se.

Test your knowledge in 10 quick questions

Words

comehow
chiaminame
vagoing
stateare
dettotold
sonoare
tuoiyour
colleghicolleagues
vorreiwould like
sapereto know

Phrases

comehow
come maihow come
come vahow's it going
come si fahow do you do (it)
come staihow are you
come si chiamawhat's the name
come funzionahow does it work
come telike you
come vuoias you wish
come mai così tardihow come so late

Sentences

Come si fa a cucinare la pasta perfetta?

How do you cook the perfect pasta?

Mi puoi spiegare come funziona questo dispositivo?

Can you explain to me how this device works?

Non capisco come hai risolto quel problema così velocemente.

I don't understand how you solved that problem so quickly.

Vorrei imparare a suonare il piano come te.

I would like to learn to play the piano like you.

Puoi dirmi come raggiungere il museo dal centro?

Can you tell me how to get to the museum from downtown?

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FAQs

What is the meaning of "come"?

"Come" means how in English when used to ask questions.

Does "come" can mean like?

"Come" can also mean like. You will know when it means like from the context of the sentence.

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