Formal Imperative in Italian: Giving Orders and Instructions

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Published Jun 17, 2024
Updated Apr 23, 2025
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Key Takeaways

  • The formal imperative in Italian is used to give commands to someone in a respectful or formal context, typically using lei.
  • In the formal imperative, there is only one form for both affirmative and negative commands, unlike the informal imperative.
  • Regular verbs follow a consistent pattern in the formal imperative, resembling the present subjunctive conjugation.
  • Irregular verbs have unique forms in the formal imperative, such as Lei sia for "to be" and Lei abbia for "to have."
  • When comparing formal and informal imperatives, the endings switch: informal uses -a while formal uses -i.

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The Imperative Mood in Italian

Different Types of Imperative

When I explain the imperative mood to my students, I like to provide them with an overview because I think it makes it easier to understand when it comes to conjugating the different forms.

As a matter of fact, the Italian imperative mood changes its conjugations depending on the form. Let me show you what I mean.

  • Informal imperative: This is the imperative form addressed to the second person singular tu. The Italian informal imperative has two different conjugations, depending on whether the verb is affirmative or negative.
  • Formal imperative: This is the imperative form addressed to the formal third person singular lei. The Italian formal imperative has one form only, for both affirmative and negative.
  • Imperative with pronouns: Depending on the subject (tu vs lei) and whether it is affirmative or negative, pronouns can be displayed in four different ways. It sounds difficult, but it is very consistent throughout the conjugation.

Here are some examples, so you can see the differences.

Mangia la pasta!

Eat the pasta!

Non mangiare la pasta!

Do not eat the pasta!

Mangi la pasta, signora.

Eat the pasta, madam.

Non mangi la pasta, signora.

Do not eat pasta, madam.

Mangiala!

Eat it!

La mangi, signora!

Eat it, madam!

Non mangiarla! / Non la mangiare!

Do not eat it!

Non la mangi, signora.

Do not eat it, madam.

In this article, I will focus on the affirmative formal imperative in Italian.

When to Use the Affirmative Formal Imperative in Italian

We saw that, in general, the imperative mood is used to give commands, orders, or instructions, and it only exists in the present tense.

Specifically, the affirmative formal imperative in Italian is used to give positive commands, orders, and instructions to someone who is older than us, that we are not familiar with, and, in general, in formal contexts. It grammatically corresponds to the third person singular.

Signore, aspetti il suo turno!

Sir, wait your turn!

Apra la pagina e faccia l’iscrizione al sito.

Open the page and register on the website.

Formal Affirmative Imperative Mood: Conjugation

Regular Verbs

Regular verbs are quite consistent when conjugated in the formal affirmative form and share the same conjugation as the present subjunctive.

Verb Translation Formal Imperative
Parlare to speak Lei parli
Finire to finish Lei finisca
Dormire to sleep Lei dorma
A fun pattern I like to show to my students is that if you compare the formal and informal affirmative mood, you can see the the endings are switched! Where you have -a in the informal conjugation, you have -i in the formal one and vice versa.

Irregular verbs

Here I will show you irregular verbs, instead.

Verb Translation Formal Imperative 
Essere to be Lei sia
Avere to have Lei abbia
Sapere to know Lei sappia
Dare to give Lei dia
Fare to do, to make Lei faccia
Stare to stay, to be Lei stia
Andare to go Lei vada
Dire to say, to tell Lei dica

Key Terms and Concepts

Words

parlispeak
siabe
facciado/make
scrivawrite
leggaread
ascoltilisten
vengacome
vadago
prendatake
mettaput

Phrases

AscoltiListen
ParliSpeak
ScrivaWrite
LeggaRead
FacciaDo/make
VadaGo
SiaBe
VengaCome
PrendaTake
ApraOpen

Sentences

Lei parli più piano, per favore.

Please speak more slowly.

Non si preoccupi, ci pensiamo noi.

Don't worry, we'll take care of it.

Lei faccia attenzione mentre attraversa la strada.

Be careful while crossing the street.

Lei mi segua, per favore.

Please follow me.

Non si dimentichi di chiudere la finestra.

Don't forget to close the window.

FAQs

What is the formal imperative in Italian?

The formal, or polite, imperative is used when addressing someone with "Lei." To form this, remove the infinitive ending and add -i to -are verbs and -a to -ere and -ire verbs.

What is formal and informal in Italian?

"Tu" and "Lei" both mean "you." "Tu" is informal and used when speaking to someone your own age or younger, or someone you know well. "Lei" is formal and used when speaking to someone you don't know well or someone older than you. When in doubt, use "Lei," especially in business settings or when addressing an older person.

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