Negative Imperative with Pronouns: Italian Grammar Lesson

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Non toccarmi! / Non mi toccare!
Non toccarmi! / Non mi toccare!
Non toccarmi! / Non mi toccare!
Published Feb 5, 2021
Updated May 24, 2025
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Key Takeaways

  • The negative informal imperative allows pronouns to be placed either before or after the verb, both options are correct.
  • In the negative formal imperative, pronouns must always precede the verb when addressing lei.
  • When pronouns are placed before the verb, they remain separate; when placed after, they form a single word with the verb.
  • For the negative informal imperative, the verb retains its original conjugation, unlike the infinitive form used without pronouns.
  • Practice using both forms of pronoun placement to enhance your understanding and fluency in Italian conversations.

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Non toccarmi! / Non mi toccare!
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Non ci disturbare! / Non ci disturbare!
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Non dimenticarlo! / Non lo dimenticare!

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Main Article

Italian Imperative with Pronouns

You have already learned that pronoun placement with Italian imperatives follows specific rules. You can find pronouns at the end of the verb forming a single word, or preceding the verb, depending on the type of imperative form you are conjugating.

Rispondigli!

Answer him!

Me lo dica, signore!

Tell it to me, sir!

Rule of thumb: pronouns follow the verb with the affirmative informal imperative and precede it with the affirmative formal imperative.

Here, I will show you what happens with negative formal and informal imperative forms.

How to use Negative Imperative with Pronouns?

Negative Informal Imperative

If you read other articles about Italian imperative, you already know that I conceptually divide imperative conjugations in formal and informal forms.

In the negative informal form of the imperative, both direct pronouns and indirect pronouns can be put either before or after the verb. Both forms are correct!

Let’s have a look at some examples:

(Tu) Non chiamarmi! / Non mi chiamare!

Don’t call me!

(Noi) Non mangiamolo! / Non lo mangiamo!

Let’s not eat it!

The same applies for double pronouns.

(Voi) Non parlatemi così! / Non mi parlate così!

Don’t talk to me that way!

As you have noticed, when they come before the verb, the pronouns remain separated, while when they come after the verb, they join onto it, forming a single word.

Also, notice that while the negative informal imperative with tu requires the verb in the infinitive tense, when it is paired with pronouns, it just keeps it original conjugation.

Negative Formal Imperative

When it comes to conjugating the negative formal imperative, pronouns placement is not as flexible as with the informal imperative. In fact, direct and indirect pronouns always come before the imperative verb when addressing to lei.

(Lei formale) Per favore, non lo faccia!

Please, do not do it!

Also here, the same applies for double pronouns.

(Lei formale) Non me lo dica!

Do not tell it to me!

Imparali! (Learn them!)

In everyday conversations it is probably more common to place the pronouns before the verb rather than after, but both forms are correct, and you can freely choose when to use one or the other!

Practice the use of both forms, because you have to be able to recognize both of them, when you read or speak with someone!

Leggili, usali, e imparali! (Read them, use them, and learn them!

Key Terms and Concepts

Words

imperativoimperative
pronomepronoun
negativonegative
informaleinformal
formaleformal
infinitivoinfinitive
verbaleverb
posizioneposition
conversazioneconversation
praticapractice

Phrases

non farlodon't do it
non dirlodon't say it
non mangiarlodon't eat it
non toccarlodon't touch it
non aspettarladon't wait for her
non prenderlodon't take it
non comprarlodon't buy it
non guardarladon't watch her
non aprirlodon't open it
non scriverlodon't write it

Sentences

Non lo fare!

Don't do it!

Non dirmi!

Don't tell me!

Non mangiarlo!

Don't eat it!

Non me lo dia, per favore.

Please, don't give it to me.

Non farlo adesso.

Don't do it now.

FAQs

What are the rules for imperative in Italian?

When it comes to forming the imperative of regular verbs, the process involves attaching specific endings to the verb stem. The verb stem is the root form of the verb that remains after removing the –are, –ere, or –ire. To form the imperative tense correctly, the ending you add to the verb stem depends on the subject or the intended audience of the command.

What is the negative form of the imperative in Italian?

In the Italian language, the negative imperative is a verb form used to express a command or request that something should not be done. To form the negative imperative, one should always add the word "non" before the verb.

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